He used dodgy restaurants to ‘test’ his dates and weed out the unadventurous eaters.
她说道,「他利用善于骗人的餐馆‘考验’约会对象,淘汰了那些不愿冒险的食客。
By worrying about the wrong things, we do actual damage to our children, raising them to be anxious and unadventurous or, as she puts it, 「hothouse, mama-tied, danger-hallucinating joy extinguishers.」